I am a professional reminder-er and permission granter who moonlights as an artist, author, and speaker. I enjoy Star Wars, soft t-shirts, and brand new tubes of paint. My wife Kim and I homeschool our three weird kids and live in Wisconsin, where we eat way too many cheese curds.
Greetings from Sheboygan, where are still processing the report that The Cure Adultitis Institute recently intercepted. It's a sobering reminder of how determined Adultitis is when it comes to ruining your holidays, and worth checking out (more on that below).
I met Kevin and his family when I was in college. They were very involved in the church I attended. Such cool people; kind, warm, and welcoming. The parents modeled a marriage worth emulating. Kevin reminded me of me when I was his age: brown curly hair, smart and thoughtful, a little bit shy.
I’d lost touch, but was saddened when I heard that Kevin, just twenty-three years old, was battling leukemia. He had been in Texas getting treatment and fighting hard, but with the cancer on the verge of winning the war, he returned in September to spend his final months at home. Kevin’s favorite holiday is Christmas, but it wasn’t assured that he’d live to see the next one. So his family did a cool thing.
They broke a rule and moved Christmas up a few months.
Upon his return — in September, remember — he was greeted by a street strewn with signs welcoming him home. Beautiful red bows adorned the maple trees, fence, and porch. Even the neighbor’s house had Christmas lights, too. Friends and family decked out Kevin’s home with Christmas cheer, cookies, and a fully-decorated tree.
Awesome.
What if your doctor told you that you had a 50/50 shot of making it to the end of the year? What would change in your life? Anything? Everything?
Here’s a sobering thought: there’s a pretty good chance that at least a few people reading this won’t be here this Christmas. That number could include you. Or me. The only 100% certainty is that for every one of us, our Christmases are numbered.
Don’t wait for a doctor’s diagnosis to wake you out of your slumber. It’s a luxury that rarely comes.
Is there something you’re yearning to do but are waiting for the “proper” time to do it? Maybe this is the week to go for it. (Or at least start planning for it.) No time like the present, after all.
What advice would you give to someone to make sure they’re living every day to the fullest? (Especially if that someone was you?) Here are some of mine:
Quit worrying about what other people think.
Examine your life for rules you’re living by that don’t actually exist. (Hint: there are way more of these than you can possibly imagine.) Start ruthlessly ignoring them.
Watch less TV. Create more adventures.
Pull out the good china and have a fancy dinner (even if you’re only having macaroni and cheese). To those waiting for some sort of special occasion, I’d say that having dinner together with the people you love is always a special occasion.
Start dreaming a little bit bigger than seems reasonable. That’s how you know you’re doing it right.
Do more of what excites you to the core. Do less of what doesn’t.
Remember that EVERY day is a holiday. It’s just that most days, what to celebrate is up to you.
Every day is a holiday; celebrating them is optional.
Kevin made it to the “real” Christmas, but he passed away less than a month later. He and his family were a powerful and humbling example to me of what faith and love really look like during difficult times.
And as for the specific dates on which we’re supposed to celebrate things like Halloween or Thanksgiving or Christmas?
They reminded me that those are optional, too.
🤔 I wonder...What advice would you give to someone to make sure they’re living every day to the fullest? Reply to share your thoughts with me, or join the conversation in the Escape Adulthood League!
Stay young and stay fun,
P.S.
The Cure Adultitis Institute has acquired a very disturbing report being circulated by Adultitis, designed to ruin the holiday season. Some suggested we shouldn't share this document due to the dangerous protocols contained within. After much debate, we've determined that it's important for Adultitis Fighters to know what they are up against and are able to engage in this war with eyes wide open.
We hope that, as sobering as it may be, this report will reveal the sinister methods Adultitis is using to compromise your position. Please use extreme caution when sharing it with others.
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I am a professional reminder-er and permission granter who moonlights as an artist, author, and speaker. I enjoy Star Wars, soft t-shirts, and brand new tubes of paint. My wife Kim and I homeschool our three weird kids and live in Wisconsin, where we eat way too many cheese curds.
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