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My wife has a remarkable superpower for finding hearts in nature, hiding in clouds, flowers, and even her sourdough bread.

One day, we walked along a pier in Lake Michigan. We talked about our business, kids, and future. We lingered at the end of the pier, then walked back, resuming our conversation. Kim casually mentioned seeing fifteen hearts during our walk.

I had seen exactly none.

I marveled at her talent.

But is there such a thing as talent for seeing hearts in nature? I’m not so sure. It’s not like having a beautiful singing voice, exceptional sprinting speed, or a penchant for math.

Kim has a knack for spotting hearts because she spends a lot of time looking for them.

What seems magical to others is often the result of lots of practice.

I once wrote a book about seeing. In it, I talked about storms, the metaphorical kind that blow through our lives. I also wrote about one of our most underrated superpowers: the ability to choose what we look for in the midst of those storms.

Yes, the storms will come. Scary, devastating, faith-shaking storms. They are a given, right up there with death and taxes and missing socks.

But those who see the silver linings are usually the ones looking for them.

It’s not a talent; it’s a practice.

The more you practice, the better you get.

This is true with finding hearts in nature as it is with anything.

So, will this year be worse than last year? Or will it be your best year ever?

Here’s the secret: You don’t have to wait to find out.

The trap is letting external circumstances dictate our answers: the news headlines, the outrage du jour on social media, the ups and downs of life.

It’s hard to view a year of hardship as anything but negative. However, a decade might offer perspective, transforming it into a valuable gift. A little time and practice might turn up a whole host of hidden blessings.

I’m not suggesting you pretend that the tough or terrible moments don’t suck. Being sad, mad, or angry is part of the human experience. We don’t have to bury those emotions under some false blanket of positivity.

Just remember that storms are part of life. The best year isn’t one without failure, conflict, tragedy, or loss.

Kim took the photo that inspired this painting. She saw a heart in the sky near the lighthouse. I enhanced it slightly and added dozens more. I can’t count them all, and you might find some I didn’t add.

That is how it is with cloud watching and wonderhunting and the counting of blessings.

The more you practice, the more you’ll see.

Those who seek shall find.

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How would you assess your ability to spot the “hearts” in your life? What’s one way you could practice getting better? Share your thoughts with me, join the conversation in The Wonderground, or spend time this week recording them in your journal.

Stay young and stay fun,

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